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Tuningsih Haryati, Luh Made Karisma Sukmayanti Suarya

Abstract:

“Lesbian, Gay, Biseksual, dan Transgender (LGBT) kerap dipandang sebagai suatu penyakit sosial di masyarakat, karena dianggap melanggar nilai dan norma yang dianut oleh masyarakat Indonesia. Di sisi lain, kelompok LGBT yang telah menjadi dewasa awal membutuhkan coming out untuk memenuhi tugas perkembangannya, sehingga menimbulkan konflik tersendiri. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif dengan metode studi kasus. Kriteria responden penelitian ini adalah perempuan, lesbian atau biseksual, berusia 18-30 tahun, dan belum menikah. Melalui analisis koding, ditemukan beberapa hal yang menggambarkan coming out, seperti awal mula menyadari orientasi seksual, hubungan berpacaran yang pernah dijalani, opini mengenai orientasi seksual, coming out menurut responden, cara melakukan coming out, orang-orang yang telah mengetahui orientasi seksual para responden, coming out dan kaitannya dengan agama, tujuan melakukan coming out, dampak positif dan dampak negatif yang dirasakan karena melakukan coming out, prioritas kedepannya untuk melakukan coming out, kriteria target coming out, pandangan responden terhadap kemungkinan coming out di lingkungannya, orang yang menginspirasi responden untuk coming out, tiga kata yang menggambarkan proses coming out, harapan kedepannya, pandangan responden mengenai penelitian ini, serta coming out dan intimasi. Penelitian ini diharapkan dapat memberikan informasi mengenai coming out, khususnya pada perempuan lesbian dan biseksual, dan mengurangi stigma terhadap lesbian dan biseksual.”

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HARYATI, Tuningsih; SUARYA, Luh Made Karisma Sukmayanti. Gambaran coming out pada perempuan lesbian dan biseksual dewasa awal.Jurnal Psikologi Udayana, [S.l.], p. 85-95, aug. 2020. ISSN 2654-4024. Available at: https://jurnal.harianregional.com/psikologi/id-63508. Date accessed: 28 Aug. 2025.

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